Do you know anyone with a negative attitude? Who keeps on complaining every day? Blinded by their own negativity, they are prevented from seeing the good things around them. The negative world of our imagination creates a negative world that is real and one that we are forced to live in. Being a negative thinker is like a disease, it is as pervasive as a common cold but far more damaging. The following are the symptoms of this disease.
• complain frequently
• lose hope in the future
• feel a lack of control
• avoid challenges because you expect failure
• put down new ideas
• resist change
• feeling of being alone or isolated
• devaluing yourself
• feeling useless
• constantly blaming others for betraying or cheating you
• finding yourself frequently overwhelmed or defenseless
• using self-pity
Normally people facing such adversities tend to blame others or even to their own fate for their failures. Obviously they could not tolerate the grace, success or progress of others. They get resentful and bitter when find that others are happy. Their surrounding factors can bring only the resentment and ultimately frustration for them. The first step toward eliminating negativity in your life is to admit that it is an ineffective behavior. Once you have the desire to change the behavior, the next step is to become more aware of it. So, whatever you do in your life, whether you’re a Philippines telemarketing agent, an executive, a mother or even a jobless person, always look at the bright side of things for this will bring you happiness and will enable you to do better things in life.